every single day i'lll be with my friends & one of them with say "OMG ___ you so retarded" & i'll say seriously guys its no fuuny & it offends people whether you think it does or not , & then anothher one of them will say "thats so gay,shut up" they wont listen to me , but i never say it anymore , so whenever they say it i correct them & tell them to stop, but now there used to it - so they know im gonna corect them & they still do it. either way m never saying it again, because im more mature & i know how to THINK BEFORE I SPEAK !